hi everyone; I have got a very difficult position in brief:
been married 7 years; three children age 3,5,7; was stupid enough not to save anything over the years so I have not got anything; current husband holds everything: cars, properties, bank accounts, even bills! all!!! total over £500 000; I have not got access to anything; unfortunately I am working and he has been looking after children so he is the main carrier; case in court I admited adultery; have not got money to move out and support myself and he has been refusing to coopereate to reach any agreements; he has been constanty demonstrating me his power, money and that I am nothing and he will destroy me. Been mentqlly qbousing me, police in the house twice but no physical violence. Children are witnessing all the stress. I hardly have enough to pay for basic legal advice but I am not eligable for any help as I am earning and not paying for mortgage etc.
any advice what to do? where to ask for help? how to calculate what I can get? (he has said to me 18% on advice of a barrister). Any info please write
I earn 1440 and only in march opened my bank account and from may keep salary for me buying food and petrol. Been accused of not co ntribting and destroying finances
finances. every month I have nothing left.
family home after mortgage 190 000
Other properties abroad less fees, loans 254 000
his pensions 27000+ end policy CEV 13000
my pension 10 000, cars 21000; other savings 24000, shares 44500;
he claimes because he has brought most in and calculated that I deserve 68 000 from what was created during marrige (figure incorrect anyway), we do not have pre nap agreement; what can I do in short term - he is abusing me completely and thretning with court every day