I haven''t written for a while, iv been doing ok, had no contact for about 4 months but am now trying to sort finances. I have been the one processing the divorce and now trying to sort finances, with very little help from my stbx. As a result we have been in contact, I have been trying to resolve to save on solicitors costs and this is proving tough in itself.
However what I am really struggling with at the moment is the impending Absolute, I''m petrified and for the first time in months am a bit of a mess again. Why is it that this bit of paper has this effect, we haven''t lived together for nearly a year and we haven''t been in each others lives for about 5 months but with this looming it''s completely thrown me. How do u deal with it???
Apologies for the random post and thoughts just feel like I need support and although I am very lucky to have great friends and family, suddenly feel very lonely again.
I agree with Cookie when I received the Absolute it meant nothing I just put it with the rest of my paperwork. The marriage was over anyway the piece of paper was just legalising this it meant nothing to me.