As the Respondant can i stop the AD from going through as i would like all the financial side of the divorce to be settled first and if so what forms do i have to apply for and at what cost
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It is common for the Decree Absolute to be postponed until after financial resolution in complex cases. A little more information would help in order to give you an informed reply.
Are you represented by a solicitor or LIP?
Has the Decree Nisi been granted?
Number of children & their ages in the marriage.
So far i have not used a solicitor, only in the beggining and got half hours free advise, i found this very helpfull. The Decree Nisi date is for the 3rd September. Ther are no children although he has stated his youngest son from his first marriage is a "child from the family" and now living with him, the courts have also acknowledged this (he is 17) We have both exchanged our form E''s, mine to his solicitor