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I would like to change my user name please?

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24 Aug 12 #351568 by MrsSadness
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I am sorry if i am posting in wrong place, but a bit of a computer numpty.

It has occured to me though that it may be best to change my user name since I can not be identified. The STBX will recognise my writing style, if not some facts I have let slip out today when a bit upset. I really DO have to be more careful what I say on here.

I do not know how to change my user name though. I do not wish previous contacts from really nice Wikis not to recognise me. And also, as a little mouse here, with no self confidence at all and physically ill, to loose my new status as a gold boarder - this means a lot to me that I have posted so much to offer support to others on this wonderful site.

So how do I do this - I think its a moderator who can help out here. Because I was upset today, I let slip about the criminal case. Being crim, you all know I can not speak about it. And certainly not publicly on here.

So my question is, does anyone know, moderators, Wiki Team members, how to change my user name? I am sorry to be such a numpty, re computers, but I am getting on a bit age wise, so please bear with me.

Thank you.

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24 Aug 12 #351569 by u6c00
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Click on the ''update my profile'' link in the top right, then click the username tab and type in a new name. You''ll retain your details and gold boarder status.

I''m not 100% clear but I think that it only changes your username for the future, not for posts you''ve already made so it would be difficult to tie ''the new you'' to your old posts.

You can''t delete your posts, though a moderator could do this for you. Alternatively go back and edit them, or just delete all the content of them using the edit function.

Best wishes

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24 Aug 12 #351571 by rubytuesday
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Let me know which posts you would like to be deleted (send me a PM). If you are still having problems changing your user-name, let me know and I can help :)

Ruth

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24 Aug 12 #351585 by sexysadie
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Changing your username changes it on all posts, including past ones. However you can''t change the fact that people may have replied to you using that name - though someone would have to be quite determined in trawling through to find it.

Best wishes,
Sadie

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24 Aug 12 #351656 by MrsSadness
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Thank you very much, SexySadie for your response. My PC fell down this morning. but been so impressed in general by your kind words and proper legal knowledge and how you help others - struggling new wikis on here, me included. I get some much needed strength from this fantatic site.. as I am sure others must do,. Great site. and heart felt thanks.... I need to ty to go to sleep now since been up all night and caught up on me.... btt thank you Sexy Sadie for your response and presence on here
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24 Aug 12 #351657 by MrsSadness
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Oops what a lack in manners there, just sooooo tired.. Ruby, thank you so much, think I''ll just leave my user name as is.... I only have a few days to get by before I finally present my d8 to the court on Monday now...... and I think I have made soem ptrety nice freinds in here, so shame to loose my recognition as helpful supportive person..... all I have to do is write this dam thing and take it to the court..... I think I am over tired here but thank you Ruby and Sexy Sadie........I think I need to retire to my bed here and try to catch some sleep..... all I can do is offer all of you guys and gals heartfelt thanks and appreciation of this site and those on it.
Thanks, I really do need to try to sleep now.

Be back later. but I have neihbours cat urine on my carpet to sort out right now before I try to get some shut eye..... long story...

Laters then and thanks again.

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24 Aug 12 #351682 by sexysadie
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Cat urine on the carpet is a real real pain. Our cat had bladder stones and did lots and I had real trouble getting rid of it. But this works:

www.catsofaustralia.com/urinestainremoval.htm#.UDdsq6C93Gg

You need to check first that it won''t bleach the carpet.

Best wishes,
Sadie

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