Hi all I am at the end of my nerves here in Germany, I have been separated from my wife for over 2 years now she lives in the UK with my 3 children. Everything has been going smooth but as I work away all week and I am only home some weekends I asked her if she can look at sorting the divorce as we agreed it would be cheaper for her to file it, this is where she turned nasty. She is saying I need a UK address and that I need to reply within 8 days, me being me said how can I do that when I live in Germany, have no family or friends in the UK. Now come the threats of CSA and REMO and her refusing to sign any paperwork for the divorce. I am sure I live in Europe the last time I checked.
I left her due to no more love and work causing stress at home and making me having no time with my kids due to the Army. Since then I have never had a better relationship with my kids, apart from seeing them seldom throughout the year. And with my ex wife all was fine I used to stay there when I visited the kids but now the milk has gone sour and I also think expensive. Do you think it would be harsh to ask for a DNA test on all 3 of my children to play her at her own game or just get a solicitor and stick my fingers up, can she refuse to sign even though I have evidence she is with someone else (pictures,Facebook) and also messages saying she wont sign just to get her own way?
Any help or advice will be gratefully absorbed I need to get her out of my life so I can move on with my Fiancée.