Unless the conduct is really violent or criminal I can''t see that it will be of any benefit to raise it anyway. I also don''t see how your STBX cross-petitioning will stop you raising the conduct issues in the future.
nothing violent or crimminal iv just told the truth how he left, they want me to agree in open correspondence that i wont raise them, what does it all mean, no kids or property invoved i just want rid,
Maybe he feels embarassed about how he left and wants to know it will not be brought up to humiliate him. Hopefully someone else on here will be able to offer more sound legal advice but may need more information.
Lilliput.... I take it you are Petitioner under UB. Unless I have read your post erroneously.
Ok, standard for any ex to use as the R in UB is: ''don''t agree with D8 statement, but will not contest'' or words to that effect.
This may seem hell at the mo, but no children or property involved, so seems to me, relatively staight forward divorce so you can both move on. Clean Break, I suspect.
I do not know what you mean by ex''s sol''s letter..... either gone or is going to Nisi and Absolute, or not. Or are you talking about AR process? Hope you found this of some help anyway, but you do need to be clearer on your case and state where you both are at the mo