I thought my situation was bad enough but reading some of the posts on here it appears that divorce is an Absolute nightmare for everyone!!
It appears that solicitors and courts make everything worse rather than better, they complicate matters and nothing is ever a yes or no.
I know its hard when emotions are involved but for me that was the purpose of going to a solicitor and in fairness he has been brilliant, predicating what my stbex will do before its done. Some of the things that are allowed to happen just defy common sense. When children are involved why do things take so long.... Sorry just having at rant at what seems like a system where no one ends up happy, even when its all over.