At some point in his last flurry of emails, my Ex said that I shouldn''t forget he paid off my debts (IVA) in the mid-00s.
Last night I found that I still had some bank statements from 2006 (I am SUCH a hoarder!)
So now I have evidence that I was not only buying all the food/toiletries/sundries, I was also paying the mortgage, council tax, utility bills, sky tv & tv licence - but I was also subbing him £100 by standing order. I think that is sufficient evidence that we were splitting bills etc equally (otherwise why was I giving him money regularly!)
Its really important you don`t get sidetracked, especially with silly irrelevant issues or arguments, if it happens in court just say its not relevant, with what time you have and given assets are small focus on what matters.