Fifteen months after my wife asked for a divorce, my wife's solicitor has stopped demanding the moon on a stick and has made a sensible offer, which I have accepted. The nightmare is over! Thankyou WySpecial and Hadenoughnow for the advice you have given me. The arguments helped a great deal. The house is going up for sale and I have my freedom!!! Whoopeeee!!!! I start looking for my new home tomorrow.