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Abuser claiming to be the victim???

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15 Feb 21 #515825 by Caz99
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Narcissist is threatening to call the Police if I return home. I am staying with my sister for the sake of my own physical and mental health. He has changed the locks and has an old video on his phone of me trying to stop him filming me without my consent, he claims this is assault. He keeps threatening that a non-molestation order is in place, then changes to "has been requested" to "I will call the Police,, show them the video and have her arrested". I do not have any contact, my sister is acting as my intermediary at the moment.
He had been depriving me of money, food, heat, power, phone, internet, constantly lying, he admitted to my sister that he has a girlfriend but denied it to me.
Now he is in the marital home with our pets and I am homeless; staying with my sister & family for the time being.
He filed for divorce and is now delaying the financial discussions because he has it all and I have nothing.
I feel like going back to the house but am fearful of what he may do. I suffer from depression and anxiety so not sure I could cope with being back there.
I feel hopeless.

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