Hi, my husband and I have separated, amicably. We are both in rented properties, our pensions are similar, but my husband earns twice as much as I do. However, the property I live in is rented from my parents so, all being well, will be mine one day. As I initiated the separation (even though it's amicable, it wasn't a joint decision), I don't want to claim anything from my husband, especially as I will one day own a house and he is far less likely to. We want to have a Clean Break, ultimately. Can we decide that we want to make no claim on each other at all, or would the judge not sign this off and make us do so (likely him granting me a settlement, which I don't want)? We have 1 daughter, who is 16 and likely off to university in a couple of years. I just want us to be able to walk away from each other financially, without me taking anything off him.