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12 Apr 22 #519159 by Boredguy
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Married 16 years, 3 children with wife. Who are all teenagers. Feel as tho im only here for them. Im unhappy most of the time, im only happy when im alone or its just me and the kids not sure what to do anymore as i dont want to upset the kids.

havent spoken to wife about this as everytime i try talk to her she blames me for things and says im moaning at her and the she goes sulking until i apologize, i usually give in and apooogize (even if its not my fault) as i dont want the kids seeing that i upset her and for them to resent me for it.

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13 Apr 22 #519173 by mm
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Dear friend

No days are the same. We as individuals get easily bored with our daily routine without any salt or spice.
Your wife too seems to be bored about her playing the role of a mother of 3 children daily.
Why not go for a short holiday, or a day out with wife and kids? It will add some excitement in life.
Just sitting on the beach or under the blue skies is many a times very uplifting and refreshing.
Moreover, when children are at play or tucked away to sleep, try to speak to your wife about how you feel. Communication is the key to any relation and helps to understand each other's problems.

Visit a zoo or a park or a family friend who too have children so that (children enjoy themselves) and you as parents can have your me time.

Lastly pray everyday, before going to bed or when you wake up in the morning. It will give you strength and positivity in life.

All the very best, and may you have a very happy life ahead.

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