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22 Sep 11 #288970 by stukadivebomber
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The Upbeat/Downbeat thread seems to have petered out.

Just let us know your favourite for today.
It doesn't need meaningful lyrics.
You can have a different one tomorrow!

Meeeee first:-
I Could Be Happy, by Altered Images

I wouldn't say it's 'my taste'; hadn't heard it for decades (possible exaggeration? moi?).
Now I can't get it out of my head :evil:

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22 Sep 11 #288973 by Saffs
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Mine for today...."Days" by the Kinks.

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22 Sep 11 #288975 by .Charles
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'Uncertain Smile' by The The

"The only true freedom is freedom from the heart's desires & the only true happiness....this way lies. "

It's not as maudlin as it sounds. Okay, maybe it is but I like The Smiths too so it's all relative.


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22 Sep 11 #288977 by WhiteRose
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Evanescence - Bring me to life:

"How can you see into my eyes like open doors?
Leading you down into my core where I’ve become so numb
Without a soul my spirit's sleeping somewhere cold
until you find it there and lead it back home"

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22 Sep 11 #288982 by Lostboy67
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Magnum - Desperate Times

When you find yourself
In a field of dreams
But you're all played out
And you can't believe
When you're all alone
In the darkest night
And the wind blows hard
You don't want to fight

So you ask yourself
Now you've come this far
'Cause you can't look back
Don't know where you are
But you carry on
In this world of pain
Knowing very well
It's a tearful game

The beginning to the end
What we borrow, what we lend

We contemplate the past
We all remember well
It's disappearing fast
But only time will tell
Ask yourself anyway
You can't lose, come what may
Now desperate times have come
They fall on everyone

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22 Sep 11 #288984 by rubytuesday
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ELO - Hold on Tight

It's a long time to be gone
Time just rolls on and on
When you need a shoulder to cry on
When you get so sick of trying
Just hold tight to your dream

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22 Sep 11 #288986 by justjess
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R.E.M. Everybody Hurts

When the day is long and the night, the night is yours alone,
When you're sure you've had enough of this life, well hang on
Don't let yourself go, 'cause everybody cries and everybody hurts sometimes

Sometimes everything is wrong. Now it's time to sing along
When your day is night alone, (hold on, hold on)
If you feel like letting go, (hold on)
When you think you've had too much of this life, well hang on

'Cause everybody hurts. Take comfort in your friends
Everybody hurts. Don't throw your hand. Oh, no. Don't throw your hand
If you feel like you're alone, no, no, no, you are not alone

If you're on your own in this life, the days and nights are long,
When you think you've had too much of this life to hang on

Well, everybody hurts sometimes,
Everybody cries. And everybody hurts sometimes
And everybody hurts sometimes. So, hold on, hold on
Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on
Everybody hurts. You are not alone

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