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Just finished Runaway Husbands

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03 May 12 #328139 by Sunshine10
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Just finished reading Runaway Husbands (thanks scaryclaire and everyone else who recommended reading it). It leaves me gobsmacked to be honest that this whole separation thing is so predictable. I''m not experiencing something unusual, he doesn''t have a mental health problem, its not a mid life crisis......he is just an a*se.

I am just too nice a person to have noticed these past 25 years (although I did have my suspicions!)

I will re-read it again and especially the last few chapters which are all about understanding this is not my fault and how to focus on me rather than the person who has gone.

Definitely worth a read (for men too).

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03 May 12 #328181 by sun flower
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Hi Sunshine, I''m glad you found it interesting. I go back to it every few months and get something different from it. If nothing else, we are not alone! Take care. sc

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