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05 Jun 12 #335218 by redwine47
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Love.....

This time last year my beautiful mum was diagnosed with terminal cancer & died just three weeks later. I''m grateful that I had those 3weeks to tell her how much I loved her...my best friend... ..hugged her...cried with her.... . Slept beside her..... awful to see someone you love in pain to the end...

Nothing else compares............

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06 Jun 12 #335241 by Marshy_
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Hi Redwine. I am glad that you were close to your mum and you could be with her until the end.

Dont forget. You always will have a mum. She may be not here anymore but she will always be in your heart and you can always talk to her. Like I do mine.

In time the hurt you feel for yr loss will fade a bit. And when you need her, she will be there for you. Esp when yr in trouble. When I feel my mum near me I get this almost overwhelming smell of flowers and this warm feeling that she is with me.

I was in this shop once and I saw this vase of artificial flowers. They were on this shelf kinda hidden. I was drawn to them and I bought them. This is my shrine to my mum and dad now. This where I put there xmas and mothers and fathers day cards.


But anyway. A big Marshy (((HUG))) for you. C.

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06 Jun 12 #335364 by redwine47
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Thanks for your kind words & hugs. I''m sorry you lost. both your parents. I''m sure you miss them so much xx

When I separated 2+ years ago. Stbx family stopped all contact, with me, sad after 23 yrs but obviously not worth having if that''s their attitude.

Just feel my family disappearing. She was my rock always had time to listen as I did for her. This cannot be replaced. Need her more than ever during this difficult time.

I know time will help... Thanks again. Xxx

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06 Jun 12 #335371 by raybird
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its so nice you had a close relationship with your mum, i lost my dad very suddenly 4 years ago, but i still talk to him, and sometimes swear i feel his presence, big hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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06 Jun 12 #335375 by blonde cazza
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Dearest Redwine
I too have lost my mum and dad and i know where you are coming from by saying you need them more then ever now because i feel like that...i feel lost!.The rest of my family are in wales.
My ex too doesnt speak to me either and they arent worth worrying about xxx

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06 Jun 12 #335385 by afonleas
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All of the above posters,
I also lost my mam and dad, my mam 30 years ago 6 mths before i got married and my dad 6 years june15th,i miss them both desperatly everyday and i know that my situation would crucify my dad has he thought the world of my stbx(sorry dad u got it wrong this time)

They say that time is a great healer well personally i don''t believe that one, i believe you learn to deal with it more at times it''s still as raw as when i lost them.

I say lost them i mean that in the physical sense,i know and believe that they walk beside me all the time and maybe you may think i''m mad but i feel their presence and that is so comforting to me especially at this time,so to all of us wiki''s who have lost our wonderful parents
i can only offer my sincere thoughts adn prayersxx

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07 Jun 12 #335524 by Marshy_
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Hi Afon.

afonleas wrote:

I say lost them i mean that in the physical sense,i know and believe that they walk beside me all the time and maybe you may think i''m mad but i feel their presence and that is so comforting to me especially at this time


U only sound mad to the people that have not lost a loved one in this way.

Has anyone been to see a medium? I saw one in 2006. To say I was blown away is an understatement.

Redwine, in theory you could go to a medium and try and make contact as 4 seasons have passed since she died. Thats if you wanted to go see one that is. C.

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