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02 Aug 12 #346847 by Topazjewel
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Hi wonder if anyone can help me. Just got the news yesterday that contracts were exchanged and dates agreed for the move, 14th August. I have never moved house before and haven''t a clue what to do now or in what order:unsure:. The first thing I will be doing is booking the removal company today. Any advice very welcome please:)

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02 Aug 12 #346851 by rubytuesday
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I''m in the middle of packing myself, I move early next week.

There are quite a few things to do, BT have a useful guide to moving home - www.productsandservices.bt.com/consumerP...pic.do?topicId=34306

* have a good sort-out, take any unwanted items to local charity shops, or use Freecycle if you dont have transport/time to get to the charity shops. If you haven''t used/worn it in the last year, then you don''t need it ;)

* Get several quotes from removal firms, and don''t be put off using the smaller firms, who often offer a better service than the less customer-focused national firms. (my removal men will also do tip runs or charity shop drop off, for free). Over-estimate the amount you are taking, as its better to have some space left over rather than finding the vehicle that has been hired is too small and not all your stuff will fit in.

* Wear old clothes for the last week/few days,which can just be binned after wearing, rather than having to struggle with washing and packing.

* pack a small case with clean bedding, overnight essentials and a change of clothes. This means that even though everything will be in a complete guddle, you can still sleep in clean sheets, brush your teeth and wear clean clothes the next day.

* Inform your utilities providers/council tax as soon as you know the moving date. Don''t forget to take a final meter reading just before you leave (take a photo of the meter display as back-up).

* Arrange the transfer of your phone line asap - sometimes (esp with BT) it can take weeks to get an engineer''s appt if any work is needed in the new property to install a line/broadband.

* Start packing non-essentials as soon as you can. Don''t do what I did and pack the toaster 2 weeks before moving, meaning we cant have toast.

* Get friends and family to help - packing can be hard work and doing it with others makes it less stressful.

* Get your post re-directed (you can arrange this online at the Post Office website)

* If you have pets, make travel arrangements for them.

* Keep an old kettle and mugs out for the day before moving and moving day itself. This means you can have a much-needed cuppa without having to find somewhere to pack your kettle/mugs at the last minute. You can then bin the old kettle/mugs as you leave.

* Pack a box with kettle/mugs/tea-bags/snacks and clearly mark it, so its easy to find.

* Clearly mark all boxes with the contents and which room it is to go into (ie, books, dining room).

* If you can do a rough floor plan of your new home and where you would like the furniture to go, this saves the removal men asking you where each piece of furniture needs to go.

* For the last week, eat easy cook meals that involve minimal cooking/washing-up. Have a takeaway on the last night.

* Don''t forget to check the loft/garage/shed etc for items you might have forgotten were there.

* Take down your curtains/light shade the night before if you aren''t leaving them.

* and finally, try not to stress too much, moving house is one of the most stressful events (after divorce and bereavement). Fora while, everything seems to be such a guddle, and there is no room to move, but all of a sudden, it all seems to come together, and you''ve done far more than you thought you had!

Hope this helps a bit. Back to my own packing :s


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02 Aug 12 #346890 by u6c00
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Get boxes from supermarkets. The best boxes come from the supermarket bakery.

For the love of god, don''t use crisp boxes! if supermarkets offer you crisp boxes, politely ask if they have others.

Removers hate them because they are not strong, fall apart or get crushed. Your property will get damaged if you''re not extremely careful (and removers won''t be!)

Good luck!

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