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Stupid question, but how to PM?

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25 Aug 12 #351810 by MrsSadness
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Hi - as you all know by now, bit of a PC numpty.... I have tried to send a message to someone who has suffered personal tragedy on Monday, so it needs to be private. I have tried clicking under her name ''send message to'' but it won''t work. Is anyone up this time of night to tell me how to initiate a PM - she is not yet in my friends list, and since it is so tragic a loss for her, I would rather send a PM. Thing is, how to do? Many thanks for any replies.

And should lady in question happen to read this at 5am, (clue) I am trying to PM you re your loss. But don''t know how to. Well, either that or my PC is playing up!

Thanks all.

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25 Aug 12 #351823 by sun flower
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I''m not quite sure. If you hover over the name until hand comes up and click then it should take you to pm page. Perhaps your friends setting have been set up not to accept pm''s from anyone? Perhaps others can help more. Try with another wiki to see if it works - then you will know whether it is about settings or your system, or something you are doing. Good luck. (and sorry to the wiki with the sadness in their life.)

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25 Aug 12 #351828 by MrsSadness
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Thanks Scarey for the reply - no worries finally cracked how to pm about 4am! Appreciate your writing back. Hope you are doing ok. Bye for now. Hug

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