I usually don''t but occasionally think that he might be reading here. Only because he will be researching divorce issues on the internet and could happen upon it. Sometimes I feel foolish for revealing things, just in case. It''s a spooky feeling.
My stbx regularly logs on here. He is a registered member but only ever posted a couple of times. At one point we were both having PM conversations with the same helpful Wiki about finances, who realised he was hearing 2 sides of the same story :lol