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03 Aug 13 #403140 by feelinghelpless
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this is perfect and has given me a plan for this day which seemed to stretch so long ahead of me

thank you and again good luck with the move x

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03 Aug 13 #403173 by Shoegirl
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Here is another really inspiring quote I would like to share.

I''m not massively religious but I don''t really think this is the point of this really. It sums up for me what we hear on the site often. Be the better person.

“People are often unreasonable and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.
If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway.
If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway.
The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway.
For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.”
Mother Teresa

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03 Aug 13 #403177 by elizadoolittle
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Thanks. Don''t believe in god, like it anyway and try to live that way. It makes sense to me.

Missed you today Shoes, hope you are having a good move.

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03 Aug 13 #403180 by hawaythelads
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Yes Shoegirl has Mother theresa and me as her inspiration ;)
My quote is "FECK HIM"
Good luck in your new home
Pete xx

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03 Aug 13 #403185 by Shoegirl
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Yep. Feck him and you know I followed your advice to the letter!

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04 Aug 13 #403200 by Nigella19
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Thanks for sharing another very inspirational quote Shoegirl.

And Haway''s quote has its place in life too ! I''m all for the balanced approach.

I think your move has lifted all our spirits, thank you so much for your grace in sharing with us how you got there. I am in a position where I am contemplating ''What Nige did Next'' as my baby grows up and, whilst I miss being the centre of his little world, my world is widening alongside his - my opportunities increase alongside his. What a happy situation both ways !

I''ve been turning this over in my mind for some time but not doing anything. Your recent postings have inspired me to action.

Oh happy day !


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