Well, I went into the loft. Got the Christmas tree and the decorations. And also found bags of women''s clothes that were not my own (lots of leopard skin). So I now have to come to terms with the fact that my husband liked dressing up in women''s clothing. There''s no other alternative, is there? And strangely, I''m not that bothered. We had nothing in common over the final years of our marriage and I always had a bit of an inkling he was bi/gay . . .
Thanks NWTT - I do agree. I am lucky that I stopped loving - even liking him - years ago. I stayed for the children And now I have to concentrate on getting a good settlement! But hey - I know where the stopcock is and I can access the loft! Go me!