(Or men) - 2 years divorced and 4 years into the new relationship, living together for one year and all going exceptionally well, we are and always have been "dialled in" to each other.
Of late though I have noticed the odd £20 note disappearing from my wallet. At first I thought it was me but last night after having been to the cashline I am definitely £20 short and a quick look in her purse confirmed a new note in there.
Me ex used to take money out without asking but my kids never did.
She earns a good salary, I provide for 75% of the household costs so I wonder why?
I now need to decide how to deal with it as it has shattered my trust in her, if I knew it was normal or regular I suppose that might help?
Certainly not, well not here anyway,agree with Holly and Vastra.
If ever the need arose it was always asked for on both sides there was never a problem with that.or it was mentioned that it had been taken out of the communial pot.
I think its just manners and trust hope you can approach the matter and get it sorted.