Yes a big thank you from me too. There are two things you have said that have stayed with me over last few weeks
1.Fairy tales do not exist
2.leave him alone. What will be will be. Talking to him won''t work. Making him see sense won''t work. Making him understand that he has made a mistake won''t work. Getting on with life does work. Eating, sleeping and the rest of it definitely works. For you ......
.....I needed this to be said even though I didn''t want to listen. It still hurts, alot, but you have showed me the way.
Marshy you are one cool dude and a very wise wiki!