There isn''t enough information. Divorce settlements depend on the overall details - the value of any assets (including pensions) held in joint or sole names, respective incomes, duration of the relationship (marriage+cohabitation beforehand), ages, the number of any children their ages and the number of overnights they stay with each parent.
Don''t have any dependant children, his pension is 20k mine 10k, house paid off . I have always worked and done everything and I mean everything In this house. A letter arrived today for him, although his post is redirected but he has several names for his mail. Both gt lump sums his bigger than mine.
I think if you want some help you need to post the details as Fiona suggested. What do you mean by both gt lump sums his bigger than mine.? Lump sums from what? You also don''t say if either of you work and what your salaries are - or your ages - it''s difficult for people to help if they don''t know the facts.
We both took lump sums from our pension pot, and opted for a lower pension. Neither of us work now but as I said he has been offered a contract in china. He is 61 I am 59. He is hell bent on not giving me any of his pension, I have seen a solicitor who has told me that both pensions go into the pot and shared. We were married 29 years and lived together prior to that for 12 years. During that time I worked for four years part time and the rest full time until 3 years ago.