My employer has kindly approved for me to have counselling sessions for post trauma and they will cover the cost. I am struggling. I am sick with worry about what the outcome could be.
I have informed the police that as a result of his allegation, I am becoming ill and aswell as needing counselling, I have been put back on anti depressants by my GP. It is taking over my life and the worry is increasing. I feel like my home has been completely violated, not only by him but also with the police raid that happened. I am scared to go to bed and when I do, I am having to do a sweep of all the bedrooms, check wardrobes and under the beds. He has made me become so paranoid. You should feel safe in your own home.
I have asked for the interviewing officer to call me when she starts duty tonight although that won''t be until 10pm but I need her to fully understand the impact this investigation is having on me. I really hope they take this into consideration and that this is the reaction of an innocent man that is being wrongly accused.
Cant begin to imagine how awful this situation must be for you. I''m assuming you''ll have done all the usual safety things changed the locks checked windows etc.
maybe a few days with your parents or friends would help just a change of scenery.
hope you are getting the support you need.
The locks were changed when I took possession of the property on Monday afternoon. Even with doing that, I am worried sick that he can somehow gain entry again. I know he can''t but I think I have watched too many horror films.
My parents offered for me to stay at theirs for a few nights but my concern is that once I move in with them, I won''t want to go back home.
How can one person can be so cruel and make you feel this way
sometimes we carnt rationalise why people do these things , because were not like them
some time away may help you to become stronger to deal with the situation.
speaking from someone who has a lock on bedroom door and im sure I sleep with one eye open anyway.
Fed up Dad - I don''t know you.....and I am not a huggy person at the best of times.....and this may be forward - but for tonight I am sending you a supportive wiki hug just filled with positive vibes to start to wash away the negatiity in your home (and it will be a home, not a house - this will not beat you in the long run - it will make you value your freedom of such bad behaviour).
This may seem wishy washy and mumbo jumbo but I am constantly amazed how postivie messages from seeming strangers help us through.
So I stand by my ''wishy washy mumbo jumbo'' and send enormous Scottish positive vibes. (They are a wee bit chillier than your normal British Vibes but full of a good dram and porridge.....there''s strength and nonsense in that). I hope it gives you a wee smile. (I''m not as howling mad as I seem!)