29th October, the Mrs tells me we need to think about our marriage. Then she goes and sleeps at a friends house. The next day she says we need to separate, And we won't be getting back together. So for a couple of weeks, I'm sleeping on the sofa and find a flat of my own, which I've been in for 2 weeks.
We are talking, keeping things amicable, but she seems to have put me behind her, I have days when I don't get upset, but when I do it's a dark cloud descending on me for a few hours.
She has a very good friend who she has offered support to in the past when his marriage and then subsequent relationships broke down. I've confronted her twice if she was having, or had an affair. She said no, And I believe her. However, I won't be surprised if their friendship grows into something else.
I'm just trying to move on, but it's a struggle, I know it won't be easy, but with love and support off you guys, (and girls), I'll get through it.