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20 Feb 08 #14565 by 2xfoolish
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just joined feel very silly. I have been separated from m husband since i found out he was having another affair in Aug 07. We have 1 little boy of 7 who idolises his dad and is obviously very upset nad confused but getting there.I am currently waiting for my Decree Nisi, surprisingly i am not angry, more diappointed.

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20 Feb 08 #14567 by DownButNotOut
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Hi, and welcome to the site.

If you are feeling a little foolish, it always helps to find someone more foolish to stand next to...


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21 Feb 08 #14590 by chillygirl
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Hey 2x foolish.

Don't feel silly!!

Welcome, I'm a newbie as well and people have been so helpful and kind and I have had some great advice given to me.

take care

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21 Feb 08 #14596 by gone1
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No need to feel foolish. Glad that you came here. Its nice that you have not turned your son against his dad. Chris

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thanks for the advice. I should look really good standing next to my soon to be x then!!

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