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Inevitable and still a shock!

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25 Feb 08 #14989 by floswift
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what a wonderful post from gingerkitty! I too am in the tumble drier of emotions - not helped by my STBX telling me he still loves me whilst sleeping with someone else.!
I too have had counselling and am having to learn that the breakdown of my marriage was NOT all my fault - that I am NOT a failure and that there WILL be a future for me. It is not easy - I still have the shock of the actual divorce to go through - we are negotiating the finances at the moment. I have lived through the shock of him leaving, lived through the shock of finding out about the other woman in his lfe and the positive side is that I have lost over a stone and look great ! Positives are there - just look for them ! good luck

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