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25 Mar 08 #17632 by loobyloo
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Well i have been around enough I think to post positive comment on these posts

Firstly if both parities where equally happy/unhappy for whatever reasons you will both want the same

In a very horrible marriage be bad man bad woman the fact you/we stay is not always a cut and dry choice..financial, emotional, kids, family anf friends all feature in any decision
I f we meet someone else who can show respect make you feel good and see how bad things where/are, whats the odds we will not gravitate toward that person

They may just be the catalyst and reasons beyond control are put to trial

It is not anyones positon in any role to judge any other person for there actions without seeing the big picture

I hope this is unbiased as i do and always have respected each and every member I think (except jessica!!)


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27 Mar 08 #17841 by Tinny
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Well put.

I would have responded sooner but havent been online much. Only just found this by accident.

You always seem to be very fair in your posts and offer great unbiased advice.

Keep up the good work.
Hope all is as well as it can be for you.
Take care

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28 Mar 08 #17862 by loobyloo
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Things are hopefully drawing to a close ...but not holding my breath!!!!
FH in 3 weeks so hopefully all wll out and whatever the outcome I have decided to accept it and move forward with g force
I married a rat, so what, could have been worse could have stayed with him
Its the kids kids and the kids now they my future pride
love to you and yours looby

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