I found out my wife of 15yrs was having an affair last weekend. We have 2 kids, 8 and 12.
She now tells me that she doesn't love me anymore and wants a divorce - she says she has felt like this for at least 5 years.
I'm devastated and feeling a huge sense of loss. I can't sleep.
I've spent days thinking about the past and would feel much better if I can see may way forward into the future.
Can anyone help as I need to feel I have some future to get through the present.
The Divorce Calculator seems to scare a lot of people! Its best if you make an appointment and see a solicitor - many seem to do a free half hour to begin with. Then you'll have a better idea of how to proceed. Its not in anyone's interests for you to be destitute.
Lots of people on here will be able to give you good advice, help and encouragement, so keep posting.