I''m new to the site, but a year into my Decree Absolute.... guess there''s never a guarantee that things get easier once you''re past that hurdle. Have major issues with my ex husband withholding maintenance payments as a form of "I can also be nasty" revenge action, despite a Consent Order being in place. Reasoning with him hasn''t worked, so I will need to find another way of preventing him from deducting maintenance payments as and when he feels I need to be punished ( a very odd concept I find). Any advice???