My husband and seperated almost 2 years ago after 2.5 years of marriage. Now at this point I should probably say he suffers from anxiety and stress but it was he that instigated the seperation. For the first year neither of us did anything as I think I was trying to come to terms with it all. However after a year I met someone else and decided that I really should get the ball rolling (we were still on okish speaking terms at this point). I instigated a seperation agreement and it has gone from worse to worse from this point solicitors have written back and forth and we don''t even have a fortune to discuss their are joint debts that he has not paid a penny to for the last year and hasn''t contributed to the mortgage payments at all. The property is in negative equity and in our last communication I said I would absorb the negative equity and what he owes me to just sign over the property. In his last letter he said that he would accept £3000 for this!
We have now got to the point where his solicitor is not responding to letters as I did not agree to this. My solicitor is now saying I am left with no other option apart from taking him to court as they won''t respond! I have thought about negotiating on the amount but as they haven''t responded I can''t.
Is there any advice anyone can give me as court is very expensive and I am keen to resolve this asap, but feel very hard done by for want of a better description to pay someone who hurt me and treated me very badly in the end.
I am trying to resolve this as I don''t want to go to court we are trying to ascertain if my ex is still being represented by the firm we have been contacting but have had no response. It''s incredibly frustrating seeing as he wanted to end the marriage and seems to have now decided to ignore everything!
And I appreciate £3k isn''t alot when you are reading other posts on this forum but it''s alot when you don''t have it and have been paying for all the joint debts on your own too. But i''m determined to find the money to get rid of the millstone round my neck.