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The four basic steps to reaching an agreement on divorce finances are: disclosure, getting advice, negotiating and implementing a Consent Order.

What is a Consent Order and why do we need one?

A Consent Order is a legally binding document that finalises a divorcing couple's agreement on property, pensions and other assets.

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tried hard for nearly 3 more years but here I am!

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30 Jun 12 #340123 by jslgb
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But thanks for pointing that out

I tried my best, always thinking of the children and was the best parent I could be in the circumstances. noone should judge anyone without the full facts.

I wasnt judging you, i was merely responding to your post. We all try our best all of the time but sometimes there are factors that affect our ability to do just that.

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30 Jun 12 #340124 by Jamsandwiches
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Your case sounds similar to me. Another reason was the havoc I just knew he would cause, and use the children as wepons. I wanted to protect them from a similar pain I experieced, in short it devastated me and I needed councelling years later for all the pain I was unable to express then.....Waiting till now means they are all grown up and he can''t do that! I was more or less a single parent anyway as he helped out with nothing and I had to rely on my finances as he was always broke...

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30 Jun 12 #340125 by Jamsandwiches
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Nothing ever affected my ability to do my best. Thanks

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