Welcome to Wiki. You will need help to cope with the trauma of your situation and you will find support and friendship here.
With young children you''ll face particular legal and emotional issues and you''ll find it easier to cope if you have the support of wiki and family and friends at home.
When you feel ready, post questions in the Forum and just to let go of some of your feelings you might write a blog. People will leave supportive messages for you to help you through this difficult time. Pop into Chat and talk to people who understand how you feel.
Take care of yourself so that you can take care of the children.