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24 Jul 12 #345046 by julie321
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Downhearted everything everyone has said is true, it is to help them stop feeling guilty and get other people on their side. My stbx even told our teenage kids he had bee un happy for years.

My son even said to me "well you and dad haven''t got on for years have you?" and I said if that is what dad has told you and you want to beleive it thats fine. Since though both my kids have seen that stbx tell lies nd he is after all aliar and a cheat as are all those who have afairs.

Let him beleive what he wants and if possible don''t let him see it bothers you what he says, had I know. Best wishes.

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24 Jul 12 #345111 by jjones123
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Julie, thanks for your post. I know it was in response to DH, but sometimes those who read threads get a lot out of them too... Those words of, ''it has been bad for years'' was another one of those phrases that my ex said to me. I had filed it away and hadn''t examined it for ages, but on reflection, I can now see that it was also nonsense. Time, I guess, gives us that perspective and understanding into their own actions. JJ

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