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30 Jul 12 #346106 by vintage39
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Newly divorced , still feeling a bit down . Some good days , some bad , some in-between .
It''s not so much the divorce ,or the costs etc . It''s the thought that 20 years are down the tubes .
I always had the thought that we''s grow old together ,have Grandchildren and that the children would come to visit us when they''re older ,with their children .
It won''t happen now :-(
It''s not the despair that I can''t handle ,it''s just the memory of all the dreams that won''t materialise now .
On a plus side , still in touch with the children , get on reasonably well with ex and she hasn''t turned them against me .
In many ways I have moved on , so has she .
It''s just those lost dreams :-(
Nice to meet you all , BTW

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30 Jul 12 #346110 by QPRanger
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Welcome vintage

yeah I''m afraid most of us can relate to the lost dreams feelings, I spend too much of my life remembering the good times and not enough remembering the bad times that brought us here.

Keep positive, and hope that you can make a new future full of good things for yourself!

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30 Jul 12 #346112 by vintage39
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Thanks , mate
Will look to the future , past is gone

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