Newly divorced , still feeling a bit down . Some good days , some bad , some in-between .
It''s not so much the divorce ,or the costs etc . It''s the thought that 20 years are down the tubes .
I always had the thought that we''s grow old together ,have Grandchildren and that the children would come to visit us when they''re older ,with their children .
It won''t happen now
It''s not the despair that I can''t handle ,it''s just the memory of all the dreams that won''t materialise now .
On a plus side , still in touch with the children , get on reasonably well with ex and she hasn''t turned them against me .
In many ways I have moved on , so has she .
It''s just those lost dreams
Nice to meet you all , BTW