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So im still not living at home and today my wife tells me she does not know if she loves me anymore, not really sure how much of the knife there is left to stick in me. So she doesnt know why she is not happy before she asked me to leave so she made an appointment with the health nurse as we only had a baby 8 weeks ago. And my wife think she may have PND. Anyways bumped into the nurse who would not tell me a thing and spoke to me like i was crap. Surely i have a right to know if my wife is depressed seeing as she is now alone with my 2 babies. anyways my wife tells me she is depressed but from breaking our marriage and nothing else according to the nurse. Everyone is rallying around her work is phoning her, everyone making sure she is ok. But i am the victim living in my dads spare room away from the babies while she has all the luxuries of the home and all the time with the babies. Not one person asks how i am. According to my wife i have done no wrong and its all her. I asked her family for support and get told to "be an adult". I mean WTF. i would like to see anyone be happy to be forced away from their babies (2yr old and 8 week old). Especially when i havent done a thing wrong. 7 years together 5 year marriage and everything we worked for down the drain.
The actions of anyone suffering from PND, Depression or anything similar do not think rationally the whole time, they are terrible illnesses,