You''re right Divorce is a highly emotional time for the separating couple, their families and friends.
And when emotions are high its difficult to be rational or reasonable, people tend to apportion blame and perhaps lash out verbally at each other.
Its only when a couple are unable to agree on Divorce, Child(ren) contact and the finances that things can get expensive - because when people agree (and yes, there are people out there that have agreed these things between them) its straight forward.
My advice would be to allow things to calm somewhat. If you are unable to agree between you mediation is an option. (see link below)
I think you''ll find that men don''t actually suffer all the costs. My own divorce has cost me at least £10000 and my ex got a sizeable chunk of my pension as well as a good deal of the equity in the house. He pays child support, but nowhere near half what they cost.
Financially and emotionally divorce is a high cost traumatic experience.
Statistically most men recover from the divorce financially in 7 years, most women never do.
Glad to hear you''re happy again.
My ex has now found herself a rich b*st*ard so will probably screw him over eventually.
She got a deposit for a luxury flat out of me....next stop - a villa in France?
Always onwards and upwards my ex Mrs.
Not that I''m bitter or anything, ha ha.....
I am sorry to hear that you are upset.
But most of us on forum have cried so much that there are no tears left.
Who is divorcing who. personally I think that mediation is the way forward;, cheaper than court, expect H is laying through teeth about assets
With all good wishez for futurs,