I've just had a right laugh reading a locked thread.
Now I detected a lot of supressed anger out there amongst the wiki members.
Now if you all just follow a few simple Haway rules for posting you might relieve a bit of your latent anger rather than it all coming out in one hit.
A bit more liberal use of the word feck would help you all immensely.
Don't be quite so liberal and pc all the time we all know a simple admission that everyone hates their ex would relieve a lot supressed anger lying under the surface.
Simple catchphrases such as there's an adulteror fetch the torches and pitchforks would suffice
HRH anger management coach extraordinaire
Haway. I would describe myself as a thankful ex wife not a wicked wife. Thankful that I dont have to put up with him anymore. This is said from a place of complete and utter acceptance my friend, peace of mind that my life is happier and better without his acts of serial adultery. No surprises there perhaps.
I have no residual anger issues, oh in the first few months, I did not know what to do with the anger. It consumed me. But as you know I put the anger into a focussed determination to get the best possible outcomes from the shxt pile he left me in. I dug myself out of it and spent a lot of time working out what it was about me that landed me in a relationship with someone capable of treating me so badly.
I am much stronger, happier, better and much more myself than I ever was with him. I am thankful and grateful that he had the courage I lacked to get out of our marriage. Could have done without the lies and cheating part though. No pickforks at the ready as I say that, but there is no excuse for hurting other people in pursuit of your own happiness in my view. That does not make me resentful, I am simply stating my own values.