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Another request for money!!

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26 Jun 12 #339379 by sillywoman
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yes, it looks like you are paying £100 excess.

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26 Jun 12 #339381 by raybird
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pete `the wise one` now i can see why you call her the ex harridian (did i spell that right ?) so shes taken every thing and still 6 years later wants more ? we know youll pay it but thats a p,,,s take, just makes me angry that us innocent ones have to pay the price xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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26 Jun 12 #339397 by maisymoos
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Yes a very wise one indeed, loved your replies. She has paid deposit so obviously knows she can afford to fund the rest. Don''t be walked on no more , we all put our kids first but also need to keep heads above water. It won''t help them or you if you go into debt. if you give in this time the next demand is only another text away!

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26 Jun 12 #339399 by Emma8485
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In addition to the money issue, I hate this business of "Well you cant go cos dad wont pay" - it stinks

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27 Jun 12 #339407 by hawaythelads
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I know technically I''m overpaying on the csa minimum by £100 a month but at am not worried about that because I said I''d pay £400 a month.
I live in London so £800 a month rent is actually cheap for a 2 bedroom flat(going rate nowadays is £950),which I have had to rent to accomodate having the kids boy and a girl every other weekend.

The point ain''t the £355 for me I''d give me daughter £355 in a second.
But the harridan is pulling the it''s for your daughter when she literally just wants it so it''s not out of her pocket when she really does leave the kids home 5 nights a week going to the pub spending £40/£50 a time with him.
And the holidays last weekend france weekend before that Ireland weekend before that liverpool for the grand national weekend before that Cornwall.
She''s just so shameless and brazen and mercenary.
Feck me I''m a right whinger ain''t I
All the best
Pete xx

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27 Jun 12 #339409 by wmorris2
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I think she paid the £100 to guilt you into it.

fecking harridan!

This is why in some ways I am glad I don''t have any contract with my ex. They are just screw merchants!

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27 Jun 12 #339411 by hawaythelads
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No I won''t be paying the extra £355 to the harridan even if it is for a school trip for the daughter because the fact remains she has had enough money out of me to choke a horse.The £100 a month over the top of csa is to cover treats.
I''m just fecked off that knowing she can''t acknowledge the fact that money that should be put away she''s spunking on herself then tries to called me the nasty bxstard.When I say no there is no extra.
All the best
Pete

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