I posted a blog at the start of November how I had made the decision not to try not to have any further contact with the ex harridan.
This was due to these factors in summation.
1. I had just hit 44 and met the harridan aged 22 half a life putting up with her xxxx was long enough.
2. If anyone else had conned £300k out of me I''d doubt they''d be breathing.... let alone talking to me.
3.I was disgusted that to cover up her abuse and neglect of her own daughter she had sold her down the river to save her ass and made my daughter out to be a juvenile delinquent the christian fundamentalist social services woman who seemed to have a limited grasp of the english language certainly orally in my experience bought it hook line and sinker.
4.Bazza and her contrived that he move out on October 5th the day new benefits laws came in that you couldn''t claim child benefit if you lived with anyone earning over £50k. He now rents a flat and stays over there still 5 nights a week courtesy of the £900 extra she''s picking up off the govt as a single parent.
5. on top of all this once she had her fixed up social services report proving it wasn''t her fault but my daughters she then as the true psychopath that she is had the gall to blame it all on me and accuse me of putting my daughter up to reporting her.(Which I hadn''t.I had tried to actually stop her as I knew the xxxx would act her way out of it) and then call me a twister and a liar.
At which point I told her she was a truely psychopathic xxxx who was a xxxx mother who is neglects her children has left them home alone for seven years as she pursues her social life at all costs down the pub.Invests no time or care or love in them.
The accusation of lying is more than pot kettle, you should take up lieing as a profession with your adultery as the starters for ten and now the ultimate because you can''t control your neglect or your psychopathic control freak behaviour and loss of temper that escalates to physical abuse on regular occassions, you throw your own daughter under the bus to social services.
Now I''ve had you in my life 22 years and you''ve cost me the best part of £1million courtesy of having two kids with me and the UK divorce laws now I''m done with you, I''m having no more to do with you and your lies and decit so FXXK OFF.
After which I had some last word text about how she couldn''t believe how I don''t care have no interest in the kids.
I ignored this and took the decision the next day to just block her on the mobile.
She can text but calls go straight to ansaphone.
I suppose it''s been three weeks and I have the kids over one night a week.
Well since her fake break up with Bazza I noticed that a wednesday night was her preferred night for me to have the kids.
However after a couple of these I noticed my son is knackered from College on a wednesday.Thursday he doesn''t attend college so isn''t.
My daughter has to leave earlier for school from mine so being a bit tired on a Friday which starts with home economics I think works out better as well.
Also I now work for someone and can''t leave early on a Thursday she plays hockey after school until 6pm which coincides with the time I''m about to pick her up.
So without consulting her the last 3 weeks I''ve arranged it to see the kids on a Thursday with them.Remember the kids that are home alone most nights.
There was never any contact orders or any of that shxt in place anyway.
It so happens I go home via a station near the free house I gave away and on Wednesday the night the harridan is itching for me to do I bumped into my daughter hanging around with her mates and we went in the pub for a coke and a pint a coke for me a pint for her

My daughter said I''ll tell Mum I said no you ain''t due home yet if you do that she''ll tell you to get home straight away and start trying to lecture me.Remember she did it before.I asked what time she''s due home and it''s 6.30pm.
Sure enough we have our drink 5.50 to 6.15 and as we are leaving it rings.Now my daughter stupidly says I''m just with Dad and I''m on my way home. At which point the psycho xxxx launches into her rant at her about her dinner being on the table, remember she''s 15 mins early and also the harridan leaves her a dinner out to be warmed up in microwave on numerous occassions.
Of course she asks to speak to me. She starts off in that hostile school marmy way and I get her dinners on the table lie sxxt and I thought you couldn''t do Wednesday nights it would suit me better if you did Wednesdays, Thursdays aren''t really convenient or will you being doing Thursdays all the time.
I replied Ruby''s on her way home by 6.30 as you agreed and as for the night I see the kids in the week that''s flexible depending on all our arrangements and its not really any of your business.
Now I told you three weeks I''m done talking to you. Pass the phone back to my daughter and say bye kid your mother wants you home.Give her a kiss off she toddles.
Again I''m now raving angry at the fact that this thing is so predictable in how nasty, spiteful and vicious it always behaves.I knew it would tell my daughter to come straight home once she knew she was with me I''d already built that in to the equation sure enough it did.
I decided to stay in the pub and drink another 8 pints of Guiness to keep the first one company and scare the life out of my murder squad detective mate when recounting the tale that if he ever did find the harridan with an axe through her head it would indeed be the easiest collar of his career

Joking......I think:blink: