When my ex-husband revealed his 4-year affair after dinner one evening and I asked how he saw things panning out, he replied in all seriousness, "Perhaps I could spend the weekdays here and the weekends with her".
I won''t tell you my reply.
After I sent him packing, on his first visit home to see the children, he was wearing a T-shirt I''d bought him in the States, emblazoned on the front "Life is Good". I went for him.
Mine asked me to give her my address book which she hadn't bothered about for 6 months so she could send xmas cards to all her personal friends. HA HA . I re wrote it after she left with all the names I wanted in it and threw the old one away. 10 years later I was still getting xmas cards from her friends with family news in them.
After she left she bought a bijou little house but it had a long tall hedge. She asked a friend of mine who ran a professional gardening business to trim it. She was really upset when he charged her.
A lot of water has passed under the bridge since she left and so Im not really interested in her life. I have a granddaughter who has just turned 2. My x babysits at her house. When her boyfriend(the guy who caused the final split) turns up my granddaughter refuses to talk to him and throws a tantrum !!! He has to leave !! A 2 year old who can judge character ???