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23 Aug 07 #2310 by gone1
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True words Sera. Dont let this destroy you. Over the last 19 months I have met many divorced and seperated people. Some destroyed some not. It can destroy you if you let it or it can be a rebirth. I am half and half. I was destroyed but I am on the way back. My life has changed so much since this happned to me. Earlier in the year I met up with my exes boyfiends ex wife. She was utterly destroyed by what happned. She is a shadow of her former self compared to how she was early 2006 when I first met her. Its a shame realy. Chris.

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24 Aug 07 #2371 by Milman
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Does the pain ever go away? Of feeling betrayed and abused? I don't want to walk around my life thinking I'll never have what I had and being closed to people.

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24 Aug 07 #2373 by gone1
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Milman wrote:

Does the pain ever go away? Of feeling betrayed and abused? I don't want to walk around my life thinking I'll never have what I had and being closed to people.


Milman. That depends on you. If you chose to be a victim you will be. Dont be one. I chose early on not to be damaged by this.

When they were all playing happy families in the dining room I just went about my bussines and hid my hurt. I didnt want them to see that they had beat me.

Now 19 - 20 months on life is very different. I still have the ancilory relief to go thru and I may get shafted but I am positive about life. I will forget but I wont forgive any of them bast**ds for what they put me thru. It was needless and made life hard for me for a while.

I am safe in the knowledge that what goes around comes around. They will get there comeupance. Chris.

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24 Aug 07 #2377 by divwiki
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Milman: the hard part is probably going to be trusting again, the rest comes with time and, as Chris suggests, a positive attitude.

Chris: you've already beaten them by moving on with your life. Illegitimus non tatum carborundum!:P

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24 Aug 07 #2380 by gone1
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Ha ha Divwiki. I dont intend to let let them do that to me. Chris.

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