Thank you polar for your post some time ago but that''s exactly how I feel today. My x was the liar, cheat and deceitful man he turned out to be. And he was proud of it! He believed it showed he is the man and he could do whatever he wanted. I put up with a great deal throughout the marriage, he was domineering and controlling and you''re right these types marry for their own agendas out of their narcisstic tendencies. Yes you''re also true they are nomads looking for the elusive shadow of happiness.