What was the 1st thing you did after Divorce?

Waited for the finances to be completed which took just under 3 years and then put a great bunch of balloons on the front door with lots and lots of ribbon and a great big ''Congratualations'' banner. It was a fantastic feeling and then I went on to decorate the entire house in the way I wanted.

It was a great feeling especially as I received a text that very night from my ex which read along the lines "not sure what you are celebrating about" I just text back "I do!" It appeared that his solicitors held on to his monies from the transfer of equity for quite some time.

haha it does indeed. I will give you an ETA when I know myself

A tummy tuck!!!

Hah... Not divorced yet but first thing re separation was to hang a tea towel over his face in fthe family portrait in dining room which became a lighthearted discussion for diners.... xxxx

Not divorced yet, but have taken down my wedding photo, an ornamental wedding certificate, an embroidered wedding wish and a photo of the two of us at the Whitby Gothic Weekend that hung on the wall.

Seeing them every day was just too painful

I have been seriously considering packing them in with some of her stuff that she has to collect and send them to her house. Not out of spite, just that I cant stand to see them. Too painful for me. And seeing as she doesnt give much of a damn they shouldnt upset her greatly.

First thing I did was on the Monday after my divorce, I went and bought a Porsche Boxster, a car I always wanted. My Ex went ape sh*te why I dont know lol. I just had to show the evil witch that I was on the up despite her attempts to ruin my life, 3 years on I have to say I am more happy than if I had still been married to her

Haha, good for you, even though its a bit*h car on wet leaves. Hope it increased pulling power with non-petrol head women

NWTT