I''m being done for ''harrassment'' now!

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somuch2know2
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18 Oct 12 #361664 by somuch2know2

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What are the repurcussions to the women who make these allegations? It doesnt seem fair to put someone under such intentional durress and be free to do so?

GETTING STRONGER NOW
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18 Oct 12 #361668 by GETTING STRONGER NOW

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Sorry QPranger but is this the first time the police have been involved. Speaking from experience they should issue a first course conduct order which they can issue with out any evidence. If you then go on to breach that order you can then be arrested and evidence is taken into consideration. Or that is what I understood maybe all police work different obviously it sounds a bit more complicated for you particularly if it has been passed to the CPS.
For harassment to be proven the harasser should be aware that their actions could cause alarm and distress.
Sorry i know that doesn''t help your situation and may be totally wrong but this is what I was advised.
Good Luck

QPRanger
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18 Oct 12 #361669 by QPRanger

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somuch2know2 wrote:

What are the repurcussions to the women who make these allegations? It doesnt seem fair to put someone under such intentional durress and be free to do so?

Repurcussions? None as far as I can see...

Some people are masters of manipulation and the law is easily manipulated from my experiences in the last year....

MrsMathsisfun
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18 Oct 12 #361671 by MrsMathsisfun

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Not blaming the police they have to follow up the allegations, but maybe if the allegation is found to be false then the police should give the person making false allegation a warning.

QPRanger
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18 Oct 12 #361672 by QPRanger

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Getting Stronger: no I had a nice telephone conversation with a policeman in April when I was advised my stbx wanted all contact via solicitors. I pointed out she had lost her legal aid and no longer HAD a solicitor which threw the fellow a bit. I have not been issued ANY written warning or order from the police....EVERY letter sent by my solicitor to her (at a nice cost to me) was ignored, and by June I could no longer afford a solicitor either...

Serendipity100
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18 Oct 12 #361754 by Serendipity100

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Hi QP, sorry to hear all this. If you like or if it helps, you can pm me - I can tell you a bit more about Protection from Harrassment Act. There is a place for this law, but is subject to abuse, so yes, mightily unfair on you. Hope this helps. Shame about the relegation, eh!

liveandlearn
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19 Oct 12 #361784 by liveandlearn

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Hello,

I am new here and i joined after reading this thread. Ive been accused of everything you can possibly imagine. Seriously i have. Yet my ex wife has no come back on here at all. If it was me I am sure I would have a criminal record or some kind

its all one sided. wont ever change!

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