Exactly one year and two months since ex mixed out I'm now divorced, we had a 50/50 split and I kept the house, I can honestly say I'm now so much happier and people say I even look younger! (I wish) so thanks fir all the help and support. And if you are just starting your journey you will get to the other side, even if at the moment you can't see any joy you will recover and build a new happier life
I too have kept the martial home. I had too. I had lost my life as I knew it so I had to keep my home. It’s cost me a disgusting amount of money but I had to keep some sort of normality. I’m sincerely so happy to hear that your in a good place as it gives me hope. My wife moved out 9 months ago and filed for divorce, totally out the blue, I’m a shell of a man, a ghost, I’m facing my first Xmas alone in 16 years.