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20 Nov 07 #7106 by steveling
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she has got some issues , mainly to do with her child hood but i still dont think i should be her scape goat.
quite often i offered her a ear , so she could share the problem but she didnt want to talk about it , so i left it.
i have kept going back because i love her and the kids , she has just rang me and i told i was allowed to stay 3 nights a week and she said she would ask again at the council as thats where she is now. but she seems to be reasonable right now.
i really want to be there over x-mas and im hoping she will be reasonable.
my 2 year old is apparently waking in the night calling for me and its making my wife very upset.
due to visit tonight for 2 hours so will see how it goes.

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20 Nov 07 #7123 by gone1
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I think you need to do the opposite. I think a spell on yr own would be good for both of you. I had a shite childhood but it dont affect me. I think thats a lame excuse for her bad behavour. Chris

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23 Nov 07 #7467 by steveling
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just to update.
went round on tuesday as planned and we had a good chat , she thought that 2 hours on a tuesday was mean and asked if i wanted to stay longer , of course i agreed , great being around the kids again !
when they went to bed we sat down and chatted , turns out she just wants a bit of space from me and her dad so she can get her head together , she has made a appointment for some counselling regarding her child hood problems, and she even suggested marriage counselling for us !
we are getting on great right now and feel positive that this MAY have a happy ending after all .but time will tell on this one as i told her i need time to learn to trust her again , as being dumped so often by text message makes me very wary whenever my phone goes off !!!

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