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23 Nov 07 #7521 by 80SGIRLWOKEUP
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i would love 2 meet somebody. I have been on my own now with kids for 18 months!
My ex has a gfriend and seems very happy the fon calls and texts 2 me have stopped and those 2 kids have reduced.
I feel totally stuck in limbo while he seems 2 have moved on!
To top it all Im divorcing him!
sometimes i just think lifes a bitch

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23 Nov 07 #7531 by Specialdad
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I bet you 10 to 1 his relationship with the gf doesnt last!!

Just hang in there. Get over the pain and you might meet someone in time. B)

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23 Nov 07 #7537 by 80SGIRLWOKEUP
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thnks specdad! everyone says it wont last
its just difficult as i tried very hard 2 keep family 2gether








thanks

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23 Nov 07 #7544 by Camberwick green
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It will happen for you, just when you aren't expecting it, have faith honey
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24 Nov 07 #7561 by Specialdad
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And dont forget 80s until you meet that person you have the crazy gang including CG and Looby on this website to keep you company!!!! ;)

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24 Nov 07 #7569 by 80SGIRLWOKEUP
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my kids at his apartment 2day daughter just phoned to tell me candles and pink toothbrush in his bathroom!
she is obviously living with him! it is difficult 4 me to come to terms with!
its really hurtful to b replaced like that within space of couple months!
im divorcin him cos he was a nitemare now he seems to have changed! im hurt

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24 Nov 07 #7571 by tigstheterror
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Sometimes,no matter how much we may want it, we can't make another person love or want us,it may be that he hasn't changed and it's all the first flush of desire. It may also be that what you came to not like about him,doesn't bother her.If you instigated the divorce then leave him to it, you need to move on. If he is in your face with it just tell him you don't appreciate it and would rather he didn't rub your nose in it, but he may just do it all the more then out of spite. I think all he is doing is just that, trying to prove that if you don't want him someone else does!! just ignore him and move on, for the sake of your kids because your insecurities will be aparant to them,i wish you luck,Tigs.:kiss:

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