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24 Nov 07 #7574 by Specialdad
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Leopards dont change their spots 80s.

Whatever you didnt like about him will hit the gf before soon. I think he is just hiding as he did with you.

If he was a b.tard with you he will be with the new woman. just count yourself lucky that you did not spend all your life suffering.

Life is too short to feel self pity. Pick yourself up and feel lucky that you have friends and family who care and put him at the back of your mind.

B)

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24 Nov 07 #7581 by 80SGIRLWOKEUP
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thanks specdad im tryin kids help a gr8t deal!
its all still quite raw feel btter already though so thanks

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24 Nov 07 #7583 by Camberwick green
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I let my 1st x batter my self esteem and I found it difficult also to understand why he was so much the person he was with me at first with his now wife all the way through their relatioinship, he seems to have learnt his lesson but i still wouldn't want him back but I beat myself up for 5 years over the fact that had he been like this my family wouldn't have suffered... hey ho i am now 150% better off than him now and I have nothing! lol ( but i still lost 5 years of my life to grief)

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24 Nov 07 #7618 by zwitter
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Specialdad wrote:

Leopards dont change their spots 80s.

Whatever you didnt like about him will hit the gf before soon. I think he is just hiding as he did with you.

If he was a b.tard with you he will be with the new woman. just count yourself lucky that you did not spend all your life suffering.

Life is too short to feel self pity. Pick yourself up and feel lucky that you have friends and family who care and put him at the back of your mind.

B)

Odd comment that, I was divorced because she said Id changed and I decided I was better off without her because she hadnt.

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25 Nov 07 #7645 by 80SGIRLWOKEUP
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mm thanks i just have my moments!!
r marriage was a mess, i am still gettin over him it will take time

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29 Nov 07 #8102 by ToxieDogg
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Specialdad wrote:

Leopards dont change their spots 80s.

Whatever you didnt like about him will hit the gf before soon. I think he is just hiding as he did with you.

If he was a b.tard with you he will be with the new woman. just count yourself lucky that you did not spend all your life suffering.

Life is too short to feel self pity. Pick yourself up and feel lucky that you have friends and family who care and put him at the back of your mind.

B)


Hear, hear!

After spending the first half of this week up in Liverpool applying for work & sorting myself a place out to live, I arrived back in Oxfordshire to find that my STBX wife had buggered off to her boyfriend's (until next Monday evening) and had made no effort to hide the fact that she's bought him a load of expensive presents for Xmas (all piled up in her room) and been stocking up on sexy underwear and sex toys (the large Ann Summers receipt was also left out in plain view).

Also, I've not heard from her since yesterday morning, but while I was away and she was stuck here on her own having to tidy the house up, I was getting a constant stream of calls and texts.

I don't see her changing either and I know I deserve better treatment than that

What I keep thinking is that when I fall, my family and friends will make sure I land on my feet. When that silly moose falls, she'll fall flat on her arse. ;)

I won't be giving her a hand up either.

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29 Nov 07 #8108 by Camberwick green
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ToxieDogg wrote:

What I keep thinking is that when I fall, my family and friends will make sure I land on my feet. When that silly moose falls, she'll fall flat on her arse. ;)

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My sentiments exactly... x2b says he has lost everything, but he tried to put a wedge between my family and i so i couldn't run back to them but they knew what he was up to and was there for us..his lies and deciet has left him out in the cold!

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