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Read our latest Financial Settlements guide (2021)

What are we each entitled to in our divorce settlement?

What does the law say about how to split the house, how to share pensions and other assets, and how much maintenance is payable.

What steps can we take to reach a fair agreement?

The four basic steps to reaching an agreement on divorce finances are: disclosure, getting advice, negotiating and implementing a Consent Order.

What is a Consent Order and why do we need one?

A Consent Order is a legally binding document that finalises a divorcing couple's agreement on property, pensions and other assets.

Do you need help sorting out a fair financial settlement?

Our consultant service offers expert advice and support to help you reach agreement on a fair financial settlement quickly, and for less than a quarter of the cost of using a traditional high street solicitor.

Your relationships change upon divorce. You lose your ex and lose touch with shared friends. And then there are the new relationships to deal with.

Subject	Replies /	Last Post
Confused and indecisive Started on 10 Sep 22, by joydeepsaha Last Post 24 Nov 22 by Cup of Tea	Replies:1 :177	Last Post by Cup of Tea 24 Nov 22
Wife divorce application Started on 28 Jul 22, by SKC2383 Last Post 10 Aug 22 by SKC2383	Replies:2 :267	Last Post by SKC2383 10 Aug 22
Ex has moved her into my house. Started on 18 Jul 22, by elaine238 Last Post 18 Jul 22 by elaine238	Replies:0 :920	Last Post by elaine238 18 Jul 22
I've ruined my life Started on 09 Aug 08, by Lsot1 Last Post 13 Feb 22 by Lsot1 1 2 3 ... 57	Replies:394 :27.5k	Last Post by Lsot1 13 Feb 22
Seperation Started on 13 Dec 21, by davetheman007 Last Post 04 Jan 22 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :297	Last Post by hadenoughnow 04 Jan 22
I wish I was a narcissistic Started on 23 Jun 21, by Marbles2021 Last Post 24 Jun 21 by mirage63	Replies:1 :394	Last Post by mirage63 24 Jun 21
Revolut: Find out where money is being secretly moved to Started on 23 Feb 21, by mrsdoubtful Last Post 02 Mar 21 by gsub	Replies:3 :654	Last Post by gsub 02 Mar 21
Is My Wife Having An Affair? Started on 08 Jul 16, by batterseaboy Last Post 04 Feb 21 by bigman60	Replies:6 :691	Last Post by bigman60 04 Feb 21
What to do ? Started on 03 Feb 19, by ardmore123 Last Post 31 Jan 21 by LoveMyRascals	Replies:2 :459	Last Post by LoveMyRascals 31 Jan 21
Is it ciminal emoitional abuse? Started on 29 Nov 20, by thewomble Last Post 30 Nov 20 by Djsmith	Replies:3 :445	Last Post by Djsmith 30 Nov 20
Do we ever learn? Discovering a narcissist, too late... Started on 06 Nov 20, by Bobbinalong Last Post 29 Nov 20 by Nelly@2	Replies:5 :635	Last Post by Nelly@2 29 Nov 20
Cohabitating Started on 19 Oct 20, by Adgjl Last Post 21 Oct 20 by rubytuesday	Replies:1 :468	Last Post by rubytuesday 21 Oct 20
Contact after separation Started on 17 Sep 20, by melsomebody Last Post 18 Sep 20 by Vigorate	Replies:1 :563	Last Post by Vigorate 18 Sep 20
Am I entitled to have new partner round for visit Started on 04 Jul 20, by TSZJ Last Post 08 Jul 20 by .Charles	Replies:3 :717	Last Post by .Charles 08 Jul 20
What a mess Started on 13 Jun 19, by esox19 Last Post 13 Jun 19 by Vigorate	Replies:1 :533	Last Post by Vigorate 13 Jun 19
just joined. advice on separation please Started on 20 May 19, by seaofwaves Last Post 20 May 19 by ilovedogs	Replies:1 :513	Last Post by ilovedogs 20 May 19
Where to start Started on 14 Mar 19, by bearhug Last Post 14 Mar 19 by bearhug	Replies:3 :469	Last Post by bearhug 14 Mar 19
Separation Started on 13 Feb 19, by Woodsy1974 Last Post 13 Feb 19 by WYSPECIAL 1 2	Replies:7 :984	Last Post by WYSPECIAL 13 Feb 19
Splitting up Started on 11 Sep 18, by andyb7274 Last Post 03 Dec 18 by Bobbinalong	Replies:3 :490	Last Post by Bobbinalong 03 Dec 18
New relationship after the divorce Started on 30 Nov 18, by Nellie,the,elephant Last Post 01 Dec 18 by Nellie,the,elephant	Replies:6 :594	Last Post by Nellie,the,elephant 01 Dec 18
Help needed on my situation currently separated Started on 24 Nov 18, by Bobbinalong Last Post 24 Nov 18 by Cheesestring	Replies:3 :484	Last Post by Cheesestring 24 Nov 18
Wifes conversation with friend Started on 09 Nov 18, by garymorris Last Post 14 Nov 18 by garymorris	Replies:2 :475	Last Post by garymorris 14 Nov 18
How soon can an asset split be forced? Started on 29 Jun 18, by clyptic Last Post 30 Jun 18 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :459	Last Post by hadenoughnow 30 Jun 18
What happens if you have a new partner Started on 10 Jun 18, by Trinity la Matrix Last Post 10 Jun 18 by Under60	Replies:1 :8633	Last Post by Under60 10 Jun 18
Don't want to divorce but is it the only way forwa Started on 23 Feb 18, by lilou295 Last Post 23 Feb 18 by polar	Replies:1 :398	Last Post by polar 23 Feb 18
ex parte non molestation orders Started on 15 Feb 18, by cantbelievethis Last Post 15 Feb 18 by cantbelievethis	Replies:0 :410	Last Post by cantbelievethis 15 Feb 18
Adultery Started on 26 Jan 18, by Under60 Last Post 06 Feb 18 by confusedjohn	Replies:2 :542	Last Post by confusedjohn 06 Feb 18
Friend having affair.. advice please Started on 29 Dec 17, by belle43 Last Post 29 Dec 17 by Under60	Replies:2 :496	Last Post by Under60 29 Dec 17
My wife's affair?? Started on 15 Oct 17, by Hatebreeds Last Post 15 Oct 17 by Hatebreeds	Replies:0 :442	Last Post by Hatebreeds 15 Oct 17
Kids calling boyfriend \"dad\" Started on 06 Aug 17, by unsure2 Last Post 11 Aug 17 by Chrisb1579	Replies:3 :454	Last Post by Chrisb1579 11 Aug 17
Why dont they take their belongings? Started on 24 Jan 09, by wengen Last Post 15 Jun 17 by Tamarasuju 1 2 3 ... 8	Replies:50 :12.5k	Last Post by Tamarasuju 15 Jun 17
Fear of same thing happening Started on 14 May 17, by Average bloke Last Post 14 May 17 by Clawed	Replies:2 :411	Last Post by Clawed 14 May 17
Isolated and confused Started on 20 Apr 17, by coselbee Last Post 21 Apr 17 by hadenoughnow	Replies:1 :370	Last Post by hadenoughnow 21 Apr 17
Impossible circumstances Started on 29 Oct 16, by Average bloke Last Post 29 Oct 16 by WYSPECIAL	Replies:1 :380	Last Post by WYSPECIAL 29 Oct 16
Stonewalling Started on 05 Oct 16, by Average bloke Last Post 06 Oct 16 by Grrrrrrrrrr01	Replies:3 :400	Last Post by Grrrrrrrrrr01 06 Oct 16
Divorce / Failing Relationship Radar or DivDar Started on 03 Oct 16, by lostandonthesofa Last Post 03 Oct 16 by lostandonthesofa	Replies:0 :378	Last Post by lostandonthesofa 03 Oct 16
Is it too soon to start dating??? Started on 25 Sep 16, by SplashSplish Last Post 02 Oct 16 by SplashSplish 1 2	Replies:9 :1049	Last Post by SplashSplish 02 Oct 16
Wanting back with my ex Started on 13 Jul 16, by Daddy954 Last Post 15 Jul 16 by Marshy_	Replies:3 :392	Last Post by Marshy_ 15 Jul 16
Partnerships Started on 24 Jun 16, by itsbeenalongtime Last Post 25 Jun 16 by movingon6	Replies:5 :351	Last Post by movingon6 25 Jun 16
Break Up Started on 11 Jun 16, by BethanyPinney Last Post 12 Jun 16 by hadenoughnow	Replies:4 :392	Last Post by hadenoughnow 12 Jun 16